5 Tips to Help Children Adjust Unfortunately, second marriages have an even worse track record than first marriages.Part of this has to do with the kids, yours, his/ hers.Don't get me wrong, it has nothing to do with the kids as people, the kids are all right.It has a lot to do with our feelings about them.And i mean kids all ages, including adults.So here are some basic tips to help your children, you and your new spouse adjust: 1)Remind your kids that they were conceived in love. It's important to remind your children that you love them and that you once loved your ex very much.And that every time you see the child, you are reminded of how much you loved him/ her.And then things changed.Whatever happens between both parents has nothing to do with them.The divorce wasn't their fault, you will always love them.Saying"You're just like your mother(Or father)"Should ... Read more »